Chatting Up Boys on Connexion & Friendster…

Hi! I’m shooting a new episode of How Do I Look for the Style Channel as we speak! So much fun! It’s one of my fave gigs. I’ve been a bit remiss in my posting so please forgive me!

Friend sites. 6 degrees of separation. Disable chat function. Otherwise random boys hit you up looking for cybersex. New friend request from Hector. No. I don’t know you, you can’t collect me. I’m not a Pokemon.

If you understand any of the above paragraph, chances are you belong to Friendster or Connexion. I love them. Here are 2 recent convos*:

Date: Monday, February 13, 2006 9:38:00 AM
Re: A
I like El Chavo in Silverlake for a good, no-fuss margarita, but when I’m further west, I like Merik’s Blood Orange Margarita.

Let me know what you think…


Marcellas wrote:
Hey man…
I’ve never been to El Chavo. Have really not fully investigated Silver Lake as well as I should. If by Marik’s you meant the horrid place on Santa Monica, I can never get past the fact that it’s just a sex shop. You know, with all the cruising and propositioning that goes on. But a blood orange margarita sounds yummy as hell. Have you tried the margarita up @ Lola’s on Fairfax?

So what non-margarita drink do you do? Let’s talk beer. Rolling Rock or Pabst Blue Ribbon for me.


Date: Wednesday, February 15, 2006 10:53:00 AM
Subject: Re: Hey man…
Beer? Hmm.. I don’t have a very developed palette for beer. I like Heinekin. And fruity Belgian lambics. But enough about my sexual history.

NO, Merik’s is not a sex shop. It’s a mexican restaurant and cantina! That’s hilarious! Never been to Lola’s i don’t think. I’m a pretty dedicated east-sider.



Marcellas wrote:
Subject: Re: Hey man…
Fruity Belgian lambics? Freak. Keep it clean. Nothing is sexier than a guy with a bottle of Bud in his hand. Maybe a guy with a 40 oz of “Old E”. Or a guy with a can of PBR. The worst is a guy with a cosmopolitan. Or a guy with an apple martini. Those just scream “bend me over and fuck my ass.” But @ least you know what you are getting. Beer = mystery.
appletini = bottom poser. Though there is nothing wrong with a bottom. Margaritas are a mystery too.

What took you so long to write me back?

Congrats on surviving Valentines Day. How was it?

Marik’s is a sex shop. Masquerading as a Mexican cantina. The only place worse? Hamburger Mary’s. Lola’s can be fun but very poser-Hollywood-wannabe-actor-slacker. I also like Cabo Cantina.

I’m not an Eastsider. Is that like living in New York in Nolita and refusing to go to say the Village? I’m pretty much a Grove, Robertson, Century City boy. I shop too much.

Drop me a note and be quick about it.



And another convo:

Monday, February 13, 2006 2:37:00 PM
Subject: hey πŸ˜‰
i’ve been meaning to send you my love for ages and ages…
and it seems like an appropriate occasion πŸ˜‰
happy VD Day!

Marcellas wrote:
Hello Damon. ; )
Just a few things:
You are cute.
You have a cute ass.
I love your blog.
I love DeGrassi because, “It goes there”.
Are you coming to the GayVN’s? I think I’m going with Brad Benton.
Thank you for saying hello to me. That was sweet.
Happy Valentine’s Day to you also.


Monday, February 13, 2006 5:01:00 PM
Subject: Re: Hello!
Thanks for the post on my blog… i just needed to take a
stand against a couple people in particular who have been
harassing me in their blogs… i’m usually a nice guy but
every once in a while i need to put my foot down and be a
i LOVE brad benton. bigtime! He’s such a sweetheart. I’ve
met him a couple times, dunno if he would remember me
but tell him i say hello!
maybe I will see you at the GayVNs but as it stands i’m not
sure i’ll be there, i’m doing a show in New Orleans the next
day and am already set to fly into NO on the thursday, the
night of the gayvns.

Marcellas wrote:
Brad is a great guy. You know my roommate E apparently. So you are off to NO? Are you going to work? I hear dancers make cash there. Actually that’s what Brad says.

Don’t let the haters hate get ya. You must protect yourself from that. I used to pray for those people but someone wise told me to pray for myself!

Anyway here’s to our paths crossing!


Date: Wednesday, February 15, 2006 10:53:00 AM
Subject: Re: Hey man…
Oh wait… you live in San Diego? I thought thats where E lived…

I did a shoot for E about a year ago, he’s known my bf for a loooong time, i think he did my bf Hunter’s first shoot.

I’m over the whole “haters hate” thing… i think i had just watched Paris is Burning and my inner drag queen needed to get some stuff off my chest… I have a hot temper but it never lasts long. I’m an Aries, if that means anything to you πŸ˜‰

I’m doing an appearance at a dance/concert event in New Orleans, Nina Hagen is performing, a few DJs, and a slew of go-go boys and trannies from NYC… i’ll put up the poster as my main pic so u can see it.

We’ll bump into each other soon, if not at the GayVNs… maybe you can accept my award on my behalf??? lol

Marcellas wrote:
What up D!
I would gladly accept your award for you! What a hoot?! Could even make Page 6. Porn star and reality star.

No, E and I live in Beverly Hills. Near Barneys. He says hello.

Have fun in Nawlins! Don’t hurt ’em!


Date: Tuesday, February 14, 2006 2:10:00 PM
Subject: Re: What up D!
heheh that would be HILARIOUS.
you could say “You Like Me!!! You really really like me!!”

i’ll keep u posted about whether or not i’ll be there…
oh! and hunter wants you to add him as well… have i added you as a friend yet? my e-mail is and his is

A shout out to my new friends Damon & Hunter. You guys are adorable. Thanks for chatting (which is really writing but no need to be technical).

*Names have been changed to protect the innocent.

4 thoughts on “Chatting Up Boys on Connexion & Friendster…

  1. Hey Big Willie! You should shoot with my friend Gabriel. He’s awesome. I think you’ll find the color background thing will really work. It has just tripled my auditions.


  2. Great blog! Very well done thanks for putting in the time with your post I enjoy reading them.

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