Chic Valentine’s Gifts!


It approaches. The DAY. Valentine’s Day is actually named after two early Christian martyrs named Valentine. It’s celebration dates as far back as the middle ages. The tradition of sending cards and gifts spread to the states in 1847 when a woman in Massachusetts launched the first pre-printed valentine cards. Up to that point the notes were handwritten. The Greeting Card Association estimates nearly 1 billion valentines are sent each year. That’s a lot of declarations of love.

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LIP GLOSS – Lil Mama! Love it! It’s on repeat on my iPod right now!
My fave lip gloss?

Lip Gloss – Lil Mama
Yeah it’s poppin, it’s poppin, it’s poppin, it’s poppin.
I gotta ask ’em, ’cause if i don’t
It’s poppin, it’s poppin, it’s poppin, it’s poppinWhat you know ’bout me?
What you
What you
What you know ’bout me?
What you know ’bout me?
What you
What you
What you know?
They say my lip gloss is cool
My lip gloss be popping
I’m standing at my locker
And all the boys keep stopping
What you know ’bout me?
What you
What you
What you know ’bout me?
What you know ’bout me?
What you
What you
What you know?
They say my lip gloss is popping
My lip gloss is cool
All the boys keep jocking
They chase me after school
Mac mac Loreal yep ’cause I’m worth it
Love the way I put it on so perfect
Wipe the corners of my mouth so I work it
When I walk down the hallway they can’t say nothing
Oh oh oh my lips so luscious
The way I spice it up with the mac mac brushes
Loreal got the most watermelon crushes
That’s probably is the reason these boys got crushes.

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I’ve been lucky over the years on this journey. I’ve met some amazing people. One fan in particular reached out to me a few years ago and touched my heart. She has become one of my fave people on Earth. And a friend.

This is a note I just got from her. She always knows when I need her. And always wonderfully puts things in perspective. Nina I adore you.
—————– Original Message —————–
From: Nina
Date: Jul 8, 2007 11:09 AM

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L.A. Pride 2007!!!!!!!!!

This was one of the greatest weekends of my life. I was asked by Christopher Street West to host L.A. Pride 2007. What does that mean? Technically that means I stand on the Main Stage and introduce the music acts performing and banter and keep the crowd entertained while the next act sets up to perform. Being asked to do this during Pride Weekend, the weekend of the Parade, the weekend where gay men and women and their supporters come out to celebrate our lives, was momentous.

You know life is about labels. Some you create; model, actor, reality star, fashion stylist, TV host. Let’s not talk about the ones that are foisted upon you. Some you are born with; African American, male, homosexual. It took a long time for me to get to the place where I could admit to being homosexual. Then it took a long time to accept that this is my truth. This is who I am. And after this weekend I now fully, truthfully can say I embrace it. That no matter what other people say or do, that I am gay and I love who I am. My sexuality is not who or what I am. It’s a part of what makes me who I am. And I am PROUD of that part of me. I’m proud to be out in the media and in the world. To be able to say I’m homosexual. Not better or worse than anyone else. I just am.

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Boys I Like… The Music Edition!!!!!

It’s time for me to, once again, extol the virtues of male hotness. Lately for me it’s been all about music. And there is nothing hotter than a guy who can sing. Or rap. Or play an instrument. But not yodel. There’s nothing hot about yodeling. I’m attached to my iPod. I’m the guy that makes up new play lists all the time; Sex, Gym, Runway, Brandon, Brandon Sucks, Bad Boyfriend, Disco, 70s, Reese’s (songs that go together or the original and the sample)… You get the idea. Anyway without further ado here is BOYS I LIKE… THE MUSIC EDITION!!!!

But first (in homage to Julie Chen, the only thing I can still stand about “Big Brother”), the first ever BOY I LIKE LEGEND AWARD! And the winner is… David Beckham! That fucker is smoking hot. It’s really ridiculous that he is straight. I mean looking that hot is usually reserved for gay men.

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